It's April 20th! We are so close to the end of this school year. In fact, it feels like the end of the school year because we have yet another week off from school. While the children are excited about that, I am less enthused. How do working parents deal with that? It's a mystery to me... but I digress...
I was thinking earlier that we have made it through an entire school year with Christian with no drama! This year has been so different than last year. Last year, I didn't blog about the hideousness of the year because it was, well, too hideous. Just living it was bad enough, I didn't want to immortalize it in print. But, suffice it to say, it was bad. So bad, that we almost pulled him out of school. Twice. Last year, I would go to the school and he would crawl up in my lap and beg me to take him home. Below is a picture of him last year...

So you can imagine that this year, I was a little nervous. I spent most of last year looking forward to days off and field trips because I would be with him then and not have to worry about him. I couldn't wait for Spring Break and holidays. This year, I'm annoyed at the extra week off. How far we've come! Mostly I'm annoyed because of what it means for next year, but I'm still annoyed! Yay! Last year, I would have been thrilled.
I have to credit his teacher this year for a lot of the turnaround. She really "gets" Christian. And that's not easy to do. He's a difficult, negative child on a good day and she really chooses her battles. She knows that he's going to be rambunctious and she accepts that as part of who he is. She doesn't expect him to conform or be like the other children. But, she knows when to step in and set the limits. It's like walking a tightrope all the time. It's hard. Believe me, I know. Plus, Christian has matured some. His temper is still there... but it doesn't burn as quickly or as long as it did last year.
I wonder about next year. I won't be around the school much at all next year. I've told Scot that it's his turn to handle these situations. My comfort is that Christian will have an awesome teacher next year. One who really knows how to handle challenging children. Not only is she experienced, she's had the chance to watch Christian for the last 3 years. I'm sure she will rise to the challenge. I also wonder about Leah. She will be in 1st grade. We, as a family, have NEVER had a good first grade experience. It's always been awful. I can only hope that she will be the exception. I know I can't go through another year like last year. At least now, if I had to pull someone out, I would have somewhere to put them. That makes me feel a lot better! I'm sure it won't come to that though. For now, I will try to put all the worry and anxiety aside and concentrate on all the positive things from this year and look forward to another happy year!
So, here's to a good year!


