Well, it's that time of year again. It's time to count your blessings. That's the name of my favorite hymn... "Count your blessings, name them one by one. Count your blessings, see what God has done...". Anyway, I digress. Thanksgiving is my least favorite holiday. Not because I'm not thankful, but because it's become a
segue way into Christmas. I'm going to try to be more thankful this year and really appreciate my blessings. I'm always aware that we are blessed, don't get me wrong, but I have discovered that there are things that I miss. For example...
#1- I recently went into Leah's kindergarten class to pick her up. Mrs.
Niedrach came up to me and said, "I just want to tell you how happy this child is. The 5
th grade teacher remarks all the time that she is just full of life". I was surprised by this statement! My first thought was "really?" How sad! My entire job is to study human behavior and this surprised me about my daughter. I started noticing her and watching her and discovered that yes, she truly is an extremely happy child. All the time. She's full of life and wonder and loves to just be around us. She seeks us out and wants to sit with us and play. She would rather talk to us than play with toys. Everything excites her... even a trip to the store. She is giving and loving and she endeavors to help people. Amazing. I can't take credit for this.. it's the way God made her. It's part of who she is and we should be encouraging and appreciating it more. I'm thankful that it was pointed out to me.
#2- Let's talk about Christian. He's a challenging child, to say the least. But when I think about him this year as opposed to last year, I am so very thankful. This year, he is happy. He likes school, he has friends, and he has matured so much. He recently got into trouble at school and he was issued a punishment. This punishment was difficult, but he
persevered through it. It impressed me to see him take responsibility. He is working daily have more self control. We are so thankful for him.
#3- As I've stated before, this school year has really been all about Brady for me. I think about him and worry about him and sometimes, I'm just amazed at him. He has really shown me his personality this year and has grown up tremendously in the past few months. He has shown that he has integrity,
perseverance, and compassion. He is studious, helpful, and responsible (almost to a fault). I can start to really see the person that he is becoming. This is both exciting and frightening. I realize that the time where he will be without me is quickly approaching and I hope that we are giving him the tools and support he needs to face new challenges. I am so thankful that I get the opportunity to share in his life.
#4- I'm thankful for Scot. He is an amazing husband and father and he supports whatever we want to do. He gets out and runs with Brady. He plays the
PlayStation with Christian. He sits down and lets Leah fix his hair or watches her draw pictures. He turns on my electric blanket at night so it's warm when I get into bed (this may seem like a small thing- but it's HUGE). He's thoughtful and supportive and we're so lucky to have him. We take him for granted sometimes, but we are so thankful to have him.
#5- We have a large support system of family and friends. We have a great family and wonderful friends who we consider family. They share our joy, our outrage, our sadness. I rarely think about this, because I just know that they are there if we need them (and vice versa). However, we are so thankful that they are there and we should appreciate them more!
Ok, I'll stop now. It's the top 5 of many blessings. I could go on and on, but these are the ones I feel that I don't appreciate enough. I hope that this year, you will look at your blessings and see the ones that go unnoticed day to day!